zombies and mii

we ventured out into the general public today, since all the shops have re-opened and humans are back meandering up and down our street. the last few days have been nice and quiet, but it's felt a bit like being a george romero zombie flick--respectfully, minus the zombies. well, maybe a few zombies. we've been playing 'resident evil' on the wii, so i guess i have zombies on the mind. anyway, we went for a long walk and then pints of guinness in the local pub.

speaking of the wii, i'm hoping to add some pics of our wii miis (pronounced like 'me') later on. they're little cartoon avatars of whomever you want. we've been trying to create enough miis for our nintendo baseball teams. if you don't have enough miis, you're stuck with computer generated people, and they're too boring. so, we have miis of ourselves and any other pictures or dvd covers we have lying around: jeeves and wooster (fry and laurie's versions), my nephew, bjork (created by accident whilst i was trying to re-create punky brewster), and jerri blank, mr noblet and mr jellineck from 'strangers with candy.' we got a card from grandma and her roommate dorothy today, so i'm afraid our task for this evening is to re-create them in mii form as well. i bet they're both wicked switch hitters.

boxing day

happy boxing day!actually, this was our xmas dinner dessert--sticky toffee pudding, but the two days sort of run together over here. boxing day is basically a day for re-grouping--playing with the presents, spending time with family, eating leftovers and napping. er, at least that's what i gather. we spent the day cleaning and doing laundry, and now we're about to play resident evil on the wii. it's a public holiday, so most people don't have to work; but, some of the bigger retail stores are open. no supermarkets though. we haven't really planned out what we're doing with the rest of our week. probably a lot of walking, to lose some of the weight gained from consuming the above-mentioned excruciatingly rich pudding...

delayed xmas panic

something about losing pop earlier this year has made this xmas more surreal than normal. i've been putting off anything xmas-related--cards, food, presents, parties, etc.--by just ignoring all of it. i'm never the first one to have any of this done in any 'normal' year, but this year it has just felt purposely delayed. listening to xmas music--a formerly passive activity--has this year become a weeping session for me. i can't listen to 'little drummer boy,' specifically the johnny cash version which happens to the the only one i have, without tears falling uncontrollably! i'm not sure why that song, it has no connection to my pop for me as far as i can recall. but really any song, if the mood strikes me in the weepy way.

so now, a mere days before the holiday, i suddenly feel like i should be doing xmas things. we're trying to figure out how we'll get all of our groceries here--it's too late to order online, and today is the last day for 'normal' store hours. we're both 'bunged' (it's what the british refer to as 'full of snot'), need pie dishes for quiche, cookie sheets, haha. we're really in the best location for last-minute xmas--we're in the town center, steps away from every shop in guildford you could think of EXCEPT the cheap, big supermarket, Tescos. we might take a taxi later, as it's open until midnight.

we only decided yesterday it might be nice to buy each other presents! we have been together almost non-stop since early november, so it's not like we haven't bought things already and referred to them as 'early xmas presents.' but now, as the shops are out of everything, i'm getting the urge to venture out. it's funny, i always remember as a kid my dad and brothers almost never did any shopping befor 24 Dec. Perhaps i'm not in delayed xmas mode, it's more my nature to just put it all off until the last minute than i realised.

oh brother

happy festivus/ xmas! i think our little charlie brown tree falls somewhere in between the two holidays.

we also got a nintendo wii! we were at the local video game store and asked the clerk, "realise this is a stupid question, but do have any wiis in stock?" to which he replied, "you might be about 15 minutes late, but let me check." so apparently we got one that someone else didn't claim in time...i hope it wasn't a make-a-wish candidate or something, because then i'd feel awful. it's so hard to get them here, not sure about the states? here you can get them on sites like ebay and amazon marketplace but marked up to minimum £300, but the retail value is £175... so we did good. unless we stole from tiny tim. or tinny tim (pictured). we've wrapped the wii so we can re-live the excitement on xmas morning.

northern exposure

sorry for my delayed re-cap of the trip north. we left friday morning for southport and stayed with old friends of R's, E & J and they're newly-acquired english staffordshire bull terrier 'bully'. we went to the local (pub), proceeded to get drunk, ate pizza, and played guitar hero III all night. from what i remember, it was a great time! i was drunk enough to mingle with the puppy, which shows the level of inebriation.

we went to liverpool saturday afternoon, and had dinner on lark lane in an italian restaurant with R's mom, grandad, uncle, aunt, sister, cousin and boyfriend of his cousin. we stayed in the innkeeper's lodge in aigburth--on the south side of liverpool--near R's grandad's house. we probably won't stay there again--after the burglar alarm for the front door went off sometime around 4.30 a.m. and stayed on for a good hour. was odd, as there was no one to call to come and turn it off! didn't make us feel particularly safe. we left liverpool for bradford sunday around noon, and gave R's mom and sister a lift across the pennines on the M62--britian's 'highest point of any motorway.' it didn't seem nearly as high as driving across pennsylvania, but the view was nice. sorry no pics--i was driving, after all...

we went to dinner at the ring 'o bells with R's friends J and A sunday night--was honestly the best british food i've ever had. i think, if it was socially acceptable, i would have licked my plate clean. but i didn't--instead i tried my hardest to eat my sticky toffee pudding with butterscotch sauce and bailey's ice cream... so delicious.

we stayed at R's dad's house in bradford, and had a relaxed day monday--only leaving to visit his mom for tea and heading to dinner with R's family at nawaab, an indian restaurant which is commonly touted as britian's finest curry house. we weren't disappointed. it's been reported that princess di once called the nawaab and had them deliver curry to her in london--a good 4 hour drive. it sounded like an urban legend until i actually ate the food. unbelievably delicious.

we headed to the druids after for a pint of caffrey's with R's dad. I got some pics of the landlord Mick, and one of R's pop with a couple other regulars.

we left tuesday after visiting with R's grandma and her partner. we headed back to london (where we saw this fabulous mcvitites semi!), and prematurely thought the trip was flawless--until the M25/ A3 roundabout. i just couldn't get in the lane i needed to be in, so we wound up back on the M25--heading the same direction! we then thought we'd easily fix the problem by getting off at the next exit, only we managed to stay in the roundabout just too long, and again wound up heading the same direction on the m25 we'd just thought we'd exited--was like something you'd see in National Lampoon's Euro Vacation. but somehow, we got the rental car back just in time.

R had his interview in London yesterday, and today we're just trying to recover from our colds. we're heading up to london in a bit to see cousins L & J. unfortunately, i don't think we'll manage to stay long with our sniffles--but since we're not going anywhere for xmas, i'm sure we'll see them again for a holiday gathering.

british cold II

i think the weekend traveling and chilly weather prompted british cold II to appear. i did manage to find the advil cold & sinus equivalent in the UK, which cheers me to no end. i can't live without it in the states between october-april.

i guess i reluctantly understand why, in the states, you need to show something silly like photo ids, proof of address to buy pseudoephedrine, but thankfully, you don't need it here. you just have to walk in looking like death and they ask no questions. they sell the same things--tylenol, caffeine and phenylephrine (which is absolutely useless as a decongestant), or you can get the pseudoephedrine ibuprofen mix over the counter.

sorry if this post read a little dull--it's hard trying to find the same meds/ drugs over here. you can find them, with a little effort, but when you have something like a cold or allergies, the first thing you want is your reliable standbys. just so happy they have the same stuff here now. no more echinacea and chamomile tea--yay!

home again home again

we've just walked in the door--we both have tea, and are ready for bed! it's been an exhausting but fun weekend. we left early friday and drove up to southport to see friends of R's. saturday we drove south to liverpool to see R's grandad, mom, sister and various relatives. sunday we drove east to bradford to see more friends and family, which rolled into monday and this a.m., and now i'm finally without the responsibility of the rental car. i think we logged somewhere around 600 miles. not too crazy, for 4 days.

driving in the UK isn't that difficult--you just need to get used to driving on the wrong side of the road, roundabouts, narrow lanes, the crazy road signs, etc. when we got to enterprise on friday, we found we'd been upgraded to a chevy captiva--nothing like a nice american-style SUV to ease me into the british roads. have i mentioned R doesn't have his license? i'm allowed to drive on my american one for a year--in that time i need to somehow get my british license. probably do that in the new year.

we didn't get lost or have any strange mishaps until we were almost home--which happened to be rush hour in london. we missed a turn off the M25 (aka the orbital--it circles london) and added a good hour to our journey--but we found our way in the end.

i'll post more and add pics in a bit--right now i need a nap. and a fresh cup of tea.